MULTICULTURAL COUPLE’S THERAPY
ONLINE COUPLES THERAPY
I welcome you to reclaim love for yourself, and your relationship! How would it feel like to be a
co- creator with your partner, dancing through life together versus feeling like you’re in an uphill
battle against the one you love? Deep down we all want to feel seen, heard, loved, belonged,
and safe. You CAN co-create intimacy, connection, trust, and communication within your
relationship, it’s just that most of us don’t know how to. Whether it was from the unrealistic
romantic movies you watched as a kid, to seeing your parents or caregivers model love that
didn’t quite resonate with you, many of us didn’t have healthy examples of love & relationships
growing up. Where have you learned to love? Can you relate to this? If you’re reading this far,
then I’m assuming you can relate. The journey to reclaiming love and relationships then
becomes about trial and error, learning as you go, and exploring what works and doesn’t work
for you. Like many, my journey to reclaiming love and relationships, (which still continues) also
began this way.
My journey & Values
I learned more about love from my heartbreak than my actual relationships. The process of
putting the pieces of my broken heart back together made me see the parts of myself that I
hadn’t seen before. Ultimately we all want to be seen, heard and loved in our relationship. It was
heartbreak that forced me to begin loving the parts of myself I despised & shamed, so I could
experience more intimacy in my relationships. I have danced back and forth in embracing my
cultural identity, sexuality, womanhood & body in order to experience more connection, love,
understanding, trust, and communication with those I love.
As a South Asian Indian American woman of color, born and raised in Washington D.C., I grew
up with hip hop and rock music, giggled with school friends as English effortlessly grazed off my
tongue, but would come home to my mother tongue language, Hindi & Marathi. I was struck by
my parents’ dual life, from working the 9 to 5 and holding the conflicting label of “model minority
citizens”, to coming home and absorbing ourselves in Bollywood movies, yoga, Indian Classical
dance, and spicy curries for dinner. I know what it’s like to constantly switch between
multicultural identities, but not feel a complete sense of belonging to either culture, thus making
you long for a sense of home & belonging in yourself and your relationship!
I understand how cultural experiences & beliefs like arranged marriage, dowry, collectivism,
immigration, religion, sexual shame & guilt, in-laws &; family dynamics also impact you and your
relationship! It’s not easy, but what if I said, you CAN honor your cultural upbringing and still
cultivate your ideal relationship with your partner? Together, the three of us can invite more
truth, honesty, openness, intimacy, connection, and all that you desire in your relationship!
What I believe
Perhaps there was a time in the beginning of your relationship where you felt so in love and
valued but are now stuck in a cycle of the same arguments over and over again. Sometimes
you might feel like ending the relationship altogether.
I believe in bringing back that same initial feeling of playfulness & child-like joy into our
therapeutic journey of healing and growth and ultimately your relationship! The journey to
intimacy and connection doesn’t have to always be heavy, but can also be fun. I invite you to
recall the reasons that brought you both together in the first place, while embracing the change
both you and your partner have gone through!
We all deserve to feel like we are growing in our relationships instead of repeating the same
toxic patterns. The more we are able to see, hear, and love ourselves, the more we’ll be able to
do the same for our partner and overcome the constant arguments & patterns that keep coming
up.
My Approach
Seeing & hearing both parties is important to me. Together we will explore the beliefs you both
grew up with versus what beliefs support your relationship today, so you can have a strong
foundation to heal and grow!
I will support you in gaining clarity about your triggers so you can communicate your needs to
your partner and feel received, heard, and seen!
In addition to talk therapy, I often utilize art, music, poetry and dance, to explore different ways
of communicating yourselves and connecting with each other through new experiences. Studies
show that most of our communication is nonverbal, meaning we don’t actually say what we
mean. Therefore, I pay attention to body language and also use somatics to understand your
patterns & triggers so that we can problem solve in real time.
Along with my Masters in Counseling Psychology & Expressive Arts therapy and 3+ years of
working with a diverse range of cultural backgrounds, identities, and ages, I am passionate
about integrating & decolonizing practices from my cultural lineage such as tantra, yoga,
meditation, mindfulness, spirituality, archetypes, cultural mythology and cultural dance to
empower ALL and make healing accessible to everyone! Cultivating love within yourself &;
relationships inspires those around you and altogether creates a more loving world!
Do you want to reclaim love & your relationship? Do you want to reclaim love, intimacy, and
connection so you can cultivate your dream with your partner? I know the first step can be
daunting, which is why I am here for you to answer all your questions over a consultation call.
Book your consultation now!! I am excited to connect more with you and discuss what our
journey would look like for you!
MY FEES:
$240 PER SESSION
Please note, I do not take insurance.